Today I was reading a friends blog where she was implying that not speaking loudly anymore meant that she was growing up, that she had matured. And this made me thinking, who gets to decide that? Who gets to decide what proper manners are? I am one who would like to speak loudly if I so like and if I'm not hurting anyone by doing so then why would it be considered wrong?
We're living in a society today which in if a guy yells outside nobody gives a shit but as soon as they hear a girl speaking ludly they start saying that she lacks proper manners.. I'm so sick of it, so sick of people telling me how to be and what "proper manners" are. How is speaking loudly not proper manners? I mean if you're outside and you're in a discussion with someone and your voices start to get louder, why does there always have to be a certain someone who wants to shsh you down? I could write an essay about this issue but I'm just too tired today, maybe tomorrow? haha, well for now xoxo
Quote of the day: I grew up and matured without having to end a part of myself
Bahdaltine!
SvaraRadera