I won't change even if it costs me my everything. I'll find something new to hold on to. Or better else I'll hold on to myself cause in the end thats the only thing I have! XoXo
As perfect as always isnt it, to not change is good, but its only good when ur perfect, but let me tell u sometin, no one is perfect, not even u, our stive is to reach perfection and we do that by changin, so ull better start learn how to change
I strive to reach perfection in areas where I am doing too little.. as in my religion maybe towards my parents, a friend. But not in my personality not the way I AM. That's something I'm really content about and even though I'm not perfect according to the world I'm just the way I want to be (personality wise that is)//Mona
How do u know that ur personality is perfect then? if u look at urself and think that ur personality is perfect then thats just ignorance and proudness (2 of the things that ur religion tells u not to be!)
Ignorance? proudness? So i should see myself the way other people see me? That's a messed up thought in a messed up world where most people are looking for a shot to pull you down, to kill your personality. NO! I look at what I BELIEVE is a good person and I be that person. I am that person. I don't know who taught you to read but if you look closely you might understand that I said I'm not perfect but my common sense tells me how I should be and its to accordance to what I am. Not according to you or anyone else. It has nothing to to with ignorance if I'm a person who likes to help a friend even in the middle of the night and someone tells me its wrong. NO it's common sense that I have. Maybe you should look it up ;)
Being perfect is a very hard and long way to go, you can always work on yourself and her sentence "Or better else I'll hold on to myself cause in the end thats the only thing I have!" It is clearly saying that she is talking about changing her way and to learn more about herself to be able to accepting her amazing qualities to be able to stand on her own without anyone holding her hand. To be confident about her choises in life. She wasn't talking about how perfect she is, she was talking about accepting herself and that she needs to know more about herself rather than listening to what other emply that she is and tell her what she can or can't do. At the end Mona you're the only one who knows yourself and your limits so keep on developing to become more independant because at the end noone else would feel your pain or joy the way you do! Aja Aja Hwayting
Ps! she never used the word perfect in her post and if you know her which I asume you don't then u would know that she's amazing!!!
hahahaha both of u listen, im gonna cut the bs and keep this short, the title of this post says everything, and Teta is talkin about that the person who as written this is talkin about change, hmmm let me ask Teta, what do u think of her first sentense?
P.S. im not in a denial that she is amazing, i really think she is, but it never ends in a good way for ppl who know that they are amazing, im not sayin that u should sit there and feel shitt about urself, just dont call urself amazing, let other ppl decide that part, and thats the point im tryin to make
hahaha... I don't think but I know what she ment and she was speaking about a certain issue ofcourse it is easy for you to missunderstand the concept. And yeah sure it is nice when people notice how amazing you are but at the end you're the one who need to know yourself to improve what your not satisfied with so yes she wasn't direktly talking about changing like that but she was talking about changing into believeng more in herself. and I get your point but wether one wants to call themselves amazing or not is there issue and if people thinks thats annoying than thats their problem... We are all different with different values and it's nice to accept how a person decides to express themselves especially if we know them and believe that they are right :)
haha safe safe i understand u both to, haha damn i miss these discussions, cant stop smilin when i read all this stuff, btw Teta now that ive cought ur attention, how u been? and what are u up to these days?
... it has been a while hearing from you I thought you were dead, Well I'm fine lhamdella and I'm studying to become a teacher, what about you? Whats going on in your life?
Hahaha dead?!, u make it sound like that we used to talk n c eachother every day before, i guess everything is fine with me to, just so hectic with studies n stuff, still stydying design in the forest :P, i havenet been eaten up by a moose yet, ive survived so far :P
Haha you were my first suspect but you would never admit to it so I had to use another way to make you confess... Okay I sound like a cop... Anywaysss that's it
Well I just didn't want to take risks cause you used to like mind games anyways a lawyer?? Like you were my first suspect screams cop in my ears atleast :P
Spoken like a true bananastrawberry shake!!!!
SvaraRaderaOhh nothing sounds better than that right now!!
SvaraRaderaAs perfect as always isnt it, to not change is good, but its only good when ur perfect, but let me tell u sometin, no one is perfect, not even u, our stive is to reach perfection and we do that by changin, so ull better start learn how to change
SvaraRaderaI strive to reach perfection in areas where I am doing too little.. as in my religion maybe towards my parents, a friend. But not in my personality not the way I AM. That's something I'm really content about and even though I'm not perfect according to the world I'm just the way I want to be (personality wise that is)//Mona
SvaraRaderaHow do u know that ur personality is perfect then? if u look at urself and think that ur personality is perfect then thats just ignorance and proudness (2 of the things that ur religion tells u not to be!)
SvaraRaderaIgnorance? proudness? So i should see myself the way other people see me? That's a messed up thought in a messed up world where most people are looking for a shot to pull you down, to kill your personality. NO! I look at what I BELIEVE is a good person and I be that person. I am that person. I don't know who taught you to read but if you look closely you might understand that I said I'm not perfect but my common sense tells me how I should be and its to accordance to what I am. Not according to you or anyone else. It has nothing to to with ignorance if I'm a person who likes to help a friend even in the middle of the night and someone tells me its wrong. NO it's common sense that I have. Maybe you should look it up ;)
SvaraRaderaBeing perfect is a very hard and long way to go, you can always work on yourself and her sentence "Or better else I'll hold on to myself cause in the end thats the only thing I have!" It is clearly saying that she is talking about changing her way and to learn more about herself to be able to accepting her amazing qualities to be able to stand on her own without anyone holding her hand. To be confident about her choises in life. She wasn't talking about how perfect she is, she was talking about accepting herself and that she needs to know more about herself rather than listening to what other emply that she is and tell her what she can or can't do. At the end Mona you're the only one who knows yourself and your limits so keep on developing to become more independant because at the end noone else would feel your pain or joy the way you do! Aja Aja Hwayting
SvaraRaderaPs! she never used the word perfect in her post and if you know her which I asume you don't then u would know that she's amazing!!!
hahahaha both of u listen, im gonna cut the bs and keep this short, the title of this post says everything, and Teta is talkin about that the person who as written this is talkin about change, hmmm let me ask Teta, what do u think of her first sentense?
SvaraRaderaP.S. im not in a denial that she is amazing, i really think she is, but it never ends in a good way for ppl who know that they are amazing, im not sayin that u should sit there and feel shitt about urself, just dont call urself amazing, let other ppl decide that part, and thats the point im tryin to make
SvaraRaderahahaha... I don't think but I know what she ment and she was speaking about a certain issue ofcourse it is easy for you to missunderstand the concept.
SvaraRaderaAnd yeah sure it is nice when people notice how amazing you are but at the end you're the one who need to know yourself to improve what your not satisfied with so yes she wasn't direktly talking about changing like that but she was talking about changing into believeng more in herself. and I get your point but wether one wants to call themselves amazing or not is there issue and if people thinks thats annoying than thats their problem... We are all different with different values and it's nice to accept how a person decides to express themselves especially if we know them and believe that they are right :)
haha safe safe i understand u both to, haha damn i miss these discussions, cant stop smilin when i read all this stuff, btw Teta now that ive cought ur attention, how u been? and what are u up to these days?
SvaraRadera... it has been a while hearing from you I thought you were dead, Well I'm fine lhamdella and I'm studying to become a teacher, what about you? Whats going on in your life?
RaderaHahaha dead?!, u make it sound like that we used to talk n c eachother every day before, i guess everything is fine with me to, just so hectic with studies n stuff, still stydying design in the forest :P, i havenet been eaten up by a moose yet, ive survived so far :P
RaderaRaypar din tönt! Had to be a bit dramatic to figure out who you were!!! Men hah låter som om du hare gött!
SvaraRaderahahaha who the hell did u think it was?
RaderaHaha you were my first suspect but you would never admit to it so I had to use another way to make you confess... Okay I sound like a cop... Anywaysss that's it
Raderahaha u actually sound more like a lawyer then a cop and how do u know that i wouldent confess?
RaderaWell I just didn't want to take risks cause you used to like mind games anyways a lawyer?? Like you were my first suspect screams cop in my ears atleast :P
SvaraRaderaur right haha i used to, but ppl change right? ;), actually neither cop or lawyer, prolly be more like a detective
RaderaHAHA yeah and ofcourse people change I just just chose to not take the risk :P
SvaraRadera//Teta